Ok, so as you were expressing your feelings or concerns, she made it to be about herself and her needs?

She said she needed that hug. She may had been thinking you were both in need of one, especially when she was already in a bad mood.

Another thing that came to mind was timing on your part. If you noticed she was already in a bad mood, do you think she was capable of gi ing you her attention and empathy? That's hard for most people, depending what's going on in their heads at that time. I'm wondering, had you waited for a better opportunity, she may have responded in a way you needed her to.

I still think it has nothing to do with this specific hug. Do you often feel like your feelings don't matter to her?