Thanks for the suggestion. I hope that I did this right. Maybe you're right about what you said. However in this case, I just have a bad feeling about things My gut just tells me something isn't right.
I'm sorry to hear what you went through. I honestly feel like giving up completely as I can't deal with the constant rejection and disappointment anymore. It's to much for me to handle. I'm sensitive. I take things personally. I also didn't bother making any friends irl for years too after my best friend ghosted me.
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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
@ jesyka, if you want to refer to a specific comment from another user, you only have to click on the speech bubble that appears bellow that user’s comment.
@ RollercoasterLover had a point. Sometimes our anxiety and our low self-esteem are our worst enemies and can make sometimes interpret things that happens around us in a subjective way. Filtered by our insecurities.
I tell you it because I tend to monitor any interaction to see if I’m accepted or rejected.
But, if you see there’s no point in asking them or make an approach to them, it’s ok.
The most important is that you feel comfortable with the people you related to.
Replying to your question about people like me or you, quitting any hope to fit in. I didn’t mean to be so negative. I’m sorry.
And I was referring to people with social anxiety. It’s very hard to deal with this and I had given up it in several occasions.
I lived exactly the problem you exposed here in this thread when I was only 17. It was so painful. I couldn’t hold my tears back. Instead of facing to the situation in an assertive way, I touched bottom and I isolated myself for seven years. The way I faced the situation was only good for making things worst.
So, let’s find different approaches for you.
Do you feel comfortable with these friends you mentioned when you hang out together? |