I’ve never met or heard of a man wanting to be married but not having any plans for it or taking basic steps towards it. It’s completely contradictory. If they want to be married to you, they have plans to marry you and they go forward with those plans . Otherwise it’s all talk

I’ve met unavailable men though who tell women they want to be married because they know that’s what women want to hear. In reality they aren’t interested in real commitment but they manage to get women hooked and string them along because they say the right thing. I think you waste your time on this guy.

If you want casual dating it’s all good but if you want true commitment, you need to go for men who are available for commitment. Neither of these two are