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Jun 26, 2021, 03:25 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,082
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
He regularly gives a few of my coworkers vegetable seeds and young tomato plants while he was here. After he left, he messages with shift manager every other week. Not work related but just to say hi. Cuz they relayed that to me so I know. Hence the coworker who he message with about blood sugar.
I’m quite jealous.
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He doesn't have anything in common with you....why should you be jealous? You are obsessed by him & want his friendship & he doesn't see anything between you co create a connection. Emotionally & mentally healthy people let it go & realize there is nothing in common to base a friendship or even a friendly acquaintance on. You just can't let go & like I said before, people don't like it when other people want to leach onto them & that behavior makes people build more firm boundaries & basically keep the person away from them so they don't have to bother with the emotional immaturity in their life. Dealing with people who have behaviors like yours is EXHAUSTING & most people don't want to waste their energy dealing with the issues people with behaviors like yours create between people. You keep doing similar behaviors & wonder why the results with people are always the same. Your inappropriate behavior IS the common denominator & if YOU DON'T CHANGE the results will NEVER change.
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