Thread: Just trying to process and decide best direction
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Old Nov 22, 2021, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Thumbelina50 View Post
I have thought about separating, but I don't want that. I want to be able to build back up to a better place. It sounds stupid but outside of this he is a wonderful husband. So it is hard to make it all make sense in my head. How can he be such a good husband if he is doing something wrong. I don't know how to explain what I mean
How is he a wonderful husband to you if he cheats on you and is repeatedly disrespecting you? That makes no sense. I understand you love him and all, but you're making yourself into a doormat. I think if you work on building up your self esteem, you will see that your husband is disrespecting you and the marriage.
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