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Originally Posted by Have Hope
WOW - just WOW. That is some serious craziness and crazy behavior. This man is very unstable and dangerous!
I can't say anything more that hasn't already been said.... I do encourage you to also call a local domestic violence center and get yourself a domestic violence advocate, if they have this in you city. An advocate can help guide you through the leaving process safely. I would also try and get a restraining order if you can through your local police.
I hope you are OK? You must be SO shaken up by all of that. It's most traumatizing.
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Thanks Have Hope
Honestly, I think the psychological trauma is the worst part. Every time I think of myself sobbing uncontrollably in that restaurant on thanksgiving morning and him saying hurtful things to me (in public!), ordering tons of expensive food, then leaving and sticking me with a bill that I couldn’t afford, I just start crying all over again.
And kicking myself for planting myself in such a uniquely sad situation.
I have been calling the Domestic Violence hotline a lot over the past few days. They are always so nice and listen to me talk for an hour each time. It’s very helpful.