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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
Sorry if this is off topic - Do you mind me asking how you see the kid pics as a red flag?
I would see it in retrospect, after him trying to manage down the woman's expectations about a good, committed, serious relationship. I would then instantly see it all as a bad play on trust and emotions, yeah
But I would not see it before that, so I'm curious, if you don't mind.
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I am sorry, I know you aren’t asking me but In general sensible people and good parents wouldn’t share pictures of their children with strangers. Not safe and irresponsible. Also moving too fast and sharing too much smells of love bombing/manipulation. Sensible people build relationship slowly and naturally
The person either lacks common sense or isn’t a responsible parent or is manipulative: some men know what women like to hear, so he thinks if he projects the image of involved daddy and a family man, she’d be more trusting right away.
Sure sadly some women fall for this behavior.