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Old Apr 07, 2022, 03:31 PM
Etcetera1 Etcetera1 is offline
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
I know a few people that don’t require me to reassure them that I’m fine. It gets exhausting having to reassure people. It almost feels as if they don’t trust me in some weird way or that I’m in a constant state of despair even though I vent very little. I agree that being around people that don’t assume you’re just simply a negative person is beneficial since it allows you to vent without having to worry what they will think.
That's great that you know some nice, reasonable people like that....I would say those people who want to assume that you are in a "constant state of despair" are just fairweather friends and the like who are really self-absorbed and so extremely concerned with their own comfort. So that they overreact like that. It's a stupid, ridiculous and absurd idea of theirs really.
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, poshgirl, rdgrad15