
Jun 09, 2022, 09:50 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by HALLIEBETH87
Just need to share...
Its been 15 years this September since my dad passed suddenly from a heart attack. His grave has been unmarked this whole time. Not becasue we didnt want to but because legally we arent allowed to. My selfish, abusive stepmother ***** paid for the plot when he died so legally she wont let us put one there andshe refuses to place a stone. Its sooooo hard taking flowers to an unmarked grave. Ive even seen people drive over it before. I have been saying for YEARS that we should take one of the plots around him and place a stone there and by law she cannot remove it. No one listens to me though. Now my sister seems to think its the right idea and shes all about it. anyway, we deisgned it and theyre gonna get back with us. my granny is gonna help pay for it. he was her son. its gonna be beautiful!
he will have a headstone by fall. the 15th year anniversary. i dont think anyone should have to have an unmarked grave.
my soul is content finally.
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Thank you for sharing your good news. I've had to work with my sisters, then sister, on our parents' stones, our uncle's, and then our sister's. It took a lot of work, but each headstone turned out beautiful. The feeling when the stone is finished and placed brings, as you put it so well, soul-deep contentment.
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