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UnawareBS · Jun 25, 2022, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by black-roses

So this person I haven't talked to in ages asked me "Are you still single I thought you'd be married by now" and it just like reminded me that I'm single and how I long for a boyfriend and want kids one day and now I feel bummed out. Coz I feel like guys don't like me and I will be single forever. I told this guy I liked him a few months ago and I got no reply. Like anyway I don't know why people have to ask me that so that I have to remember that I'm single and no guy likes me. I mean thanks for reminding me about my ****** love life.

You are supposed to enjoy being single, remember? When you are married, you are supposed hate being married? I will say that being married is far superior to being single yet I wouldn't know it. Grass being greener -- maybe.

If you are feeling sad about it, I want to extend my sorrow for your feelings. When I was single, I used to long for find the one. Once married, I had to kill that sadness manually. It kept going. Now, I live in a constant state of guilt.

Thanks for your message!