Ok, googled it. For a minute there i thought you meant Mike Pompeo!

I never hear "my parents did this and therefore i believed x, not y, which i now realize is not true" as BLAME. It's just the facts, ma'am. Stating a sequence of events.

Like i ALWAYS lock the car door, and NEVER leave my backpack in it. Yet every week on NextDoor, oh boo hoo my purse was stolen out of my unlocked car, what kind of evil world do we live in?! Well i would definitely blame your parents for not teaching you right! I may need to ask for a trigger warning for car break-in posts cuz man they irkle me!