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To be frank , I don't see how this relationship is going to satisfy two different people with two different views on where their individual lives should be headed. Was this pregnancy an accident ? She , being nine months older than you seems to be working on an agenda , clock is ticking , time for a baby and marriage. You on the other hand haven't even lived your life yet.Seems you still have some oats to sow. Your either married and are a family with your wife and child or your not. How can you be with a woman that you can't even say " I love you " to ?
Yes , I can see how your repeating your fathers behavior.
Plus it appears that you carry some resentments towards your wife. Your child is the one who's going to suffer , like you did.
I'm going to end there and apologize for being brutally honest.
In either case , I wish you the best.....
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