@divine1966 - Yes, I realize what I've done and now I need to nip it in the bud. I will tell him that I am not changing my mind about a divorce, and that I won't be getting together with him. He now is writing to me, offering to hang out. I see it is a very slippery slope, which is why I need to nip this now.

@willowtigger - thank you for your sweet, kind words!