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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
I actually wrote something similar on here a while back about feeling like I wanted to give up on developing friendships, like you I had ghosting and with no apparent reason by someone I was fond of - I still don’t know why.
Sometimes taking the pressure off can help, in my case having some alone time, keeping social through acquaintances and activities.
I think close friendships, true ones are rare, it takes time to find those gems, if you do then treasure them, that’s my philosophy anyway.
You’ve done the right thing for your self esteem walking away from fake friends.
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Sorry to hear that. Can you provide the link to your thread please? I’d like to read it.
It’s nice to know it’s not just me. I already met 3 wimen & only one contacted me back. I’ll be meeting two this week & possibly 3 or 4 more in a few weeks when they’re available.
This is more work than fun! I have yet to feel a true connection with anyone yet.
I really might just give up soon if things don’t work out. It’s to stressful & annoying to have to do most if the contacting & most of the intiating.