Yes, we have other people in our orbit who are more family minded and more independent.

I'm going to say too, my daughter is treated like MY kid. She explores outdoors with me, works on the house, and works out with me. I'd take her to football games and used to tell her, "You throw the ball. Don't be the girl that cheers for the boy, or dates the boy, that throws the ball. YOU be the one who throws the ball." Then I used to take her to college girls basketball games for the same reason. She visits job sites with me for work and has met a number of bad-butt tradeswomen.