Possibly. You might be right about everything. What bothers me is that we used to hang out more & she used to take me out for my birthday.

Obviously things have changed. I’m not sure why that is. I don’t seem to be as important to her anymore. Not going out for my birthday isn’t the issue. It’s the more distant behavior that’s the issue. The knowing that I’ve been downgraded.

We didn’t hang out all the time, but she’d at least intiate plans sometimes. The last time she invited me anywhere was at least 6 or more months ago. Again, weird!

Sometimes I think she wants me to not contact her at all for awhile . Maybe I’ll do that. Funny thing though is she sends me lane jokes that I pretend to like once a week usually.

I shouldn’t be doing ALL of the intiating! She does say yes to hanging out with me most of the time though.

She’s more hesitant to spend time or money going anywhere now to where we’ll be spending more than a few hours together for some reason. Hence the ‘I’ll think about it then ignore me sometimes b.s’.

We used to take weekend trips once or twice a year. We’d split the cost of a room & gas. She never complained about anything.

I’d rather have her say sorry, no, I’m not interested. And this issue she has with always saying she’ll introduce me to her sister but then has yer to fo it for over 5 years is bizarre!

I never even asked the meet her! I don’t get people ar all! Her behavior is weird sometimes!

I think a decent amount of time to spend with her is once a month at least. I’m lucky if I see her more than that as she’s usually to busy’ to go out.