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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am not going to places where he and his friends go. You’ve got this completely wrong. And it’s not self inflicted. Geez! Im doing just fine. In fact im doing great. Im pursuing things I love and enjoy doing. And im not giving up a huge passion of mine. That is a healthy thing. I visited MY friends yesterday, not his.
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I don’t think you should give up what you like to do at all, but that’s just the price to pay: running into him and his friends at concerts and gatherings. Obviously it’s the same crowd because even when you go out of state you still run into his friends.
It doesn’t mean you need to give up on going places. If it doesn’t upset you then you should keep going but if it upsets and bothers you enough that you worry for days that he tracks your phone or that he got his friends to stalk you, then there’s a choice to make.
It’s not easy. Even in the most amicable divorces running into exes and ex’s friends isn’t fun. No one likes it. Most people would rather not if they can help it.