I have to add that I don’t believe it’s evil to leave marriage that isn’t a good one. Saying stupid mean things is evil but leaving isn’t. Ideally we’d all be married for life but in reality life is too short to be miserable.

What’s he upset with you about?

If there’s a possibility of divorce I’d start planning accordingly. Stashing some money. Not worrying about movies or concerts or restaurants. I don’t really understand how you could do all that if there’s a possibility of homelessness. Stash that money. Even if he is ordered to pay alimony, it would be tough to survive. You need to either work or be on disability. Start putting money aside.