I also am the friend who is the first to reach out, suggest plans, I think what it boils down to is that my friends are busier than me. They either have caring responsibilities, family responsibilities, busier social lives etc. I have some of those things too but not as many, I do get what you’re talking about wishing that it wasn’t all coming from me. Lately I’ve stepped back a lot, I’m not suggesting things so nobody does I’ve found.

I’m mostly focusing on myself, not in a self absorbed way but focusing on self care, getting jobs done at home, those sort of things.