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Old Sep 06, 2023, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Job 30 26 View Post
So I really didn't see this issue until I moved into this new house a year ago. I have withdrawn from humanity, I fear people, they make me feel anxious, nervous, and it's easier to just avoid them. It effects the dynamics of the house, some of the guys understand, some of the guys are frustrated. Now I've never made a mess I haven't cleaned up. No one has ever had to put away a dish of mine, but the issue is, I normally help out when nobody is around, so nobody sees my contribution, and this is becoming an issue in the house. =( At work I'm great, but even when I come home I struggle. The guys invited me to a BBQ and I just couldn't do it, I was too nervous because I've just been through to much< i can't handle it. Not sure what I can do about this either, my father, who has my illness is the exact some way. We're super sensitive people, so we withdraw.
You need a good extrovert friend! That will sometimes bring you out of your shell (When you feel up to it) - To socialize a little, and accepts/understands you for who you are. Then you go back to your introvert things. My mom does that =]

The only coworker (That doesn't bother me), she calls me "Shy", and asks me questions.. I stumble my words, and then leave quickly..
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Thanks for this!
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