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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am wondering about encouragement to be attached and dependent on a therapist. If it contributes to this problem? If you are encouraged dependency, but then are expected to be independent, then it’s a problem. Disconnect.
Do therapists understand that fostering dependency but then taking it away (even for a legitimate reason) is causing a major issue. It’s like they treat you (hypothetically you) like a child but want you to behave like an adult when facing adversity
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This is my opinion and I understand it may not be a popular, but I think the dependency that was fostered seems pretty problematic. I think part of what is making the leave so painful was the dependency, not the leave in and of itself. I feel like that is on the therapist to manage and control, so the leaves aren’t traumatic.