She is not a friend. This is selfish and manipulative. You have your boundaries and she is outright violating them. I would go no contact with them and if they threaten to hurt themselves/kill themselves tell them to call 911 or equivalent and if she doesn't you will.
__________________
"I don't know what I'm looking for."
"Why not?"
"Because...because...I think it might be because if I knew I wouldn't be able to look for them."
"What, are you crazy?"
"It's a possibility I haven't ruled out yet,"
|