But see that’s the whole issue.

She couldn’t see that it’s good because it’s not what she considers good. It’s like if someone’s version of good times is to go to bars, get drunk and high and pick up people. I could get blue in a face telling them about cultural activities and outdoors adventures and wholesome groups. It doesn’t sound good to them. It’s just not fun for them. Same here. Not the same values. Not the same life style