Sorry to hear about your Mom. Seeing our parents age is hard one has to be understanding and comforting.

I am glad to hear you are getting better at identifying anxiety patterns and finding ways to manage them. As I have mentioned, it’s good for you and your children that she moved out and they can feel safer in your home. Also when you have to deal with someone who abuses alcohol you end up living around their fluctuating moods and overall narcissistic behavior patterns that go along with alcohol abuse disorder. It’s a self serving disease that ruins relationships