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Old Jun 15, 2025, 06:47 AM
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She had turned on me and blamed me for causing drama around my ex bf lying about me, and about me reaching out to his gf to defend myself. WTH? I was defending myself against a big fat LIE! I was being gaslighted by her! She turned on me for it, so I blocked her and told her she is not a good friend. Then in my last message, I told her she's not an honest person because she cheats on her bf, lies to him and to me about it, and I said we don't have the same values. Then I blocked her. She hasn't read that message, and I wish she would.

I told her she can have that whole group of people. So I exited from all their toxic drama and blocked all 4 people in that group.

And clearly my new-ish gf chose loyalty to them vs to me, showing me she is not a good or real friend to me.
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