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If only my girls would help with their own stuff. It is a big part of the problem. This is not all my fault. Maybe I just need to throw all their stuff away. But they would have a fit... It is certainly not the case that I have two nice neat clean girls who do not "fit in" to the disorder in the house. I worry though, now that you and Pink have said this. Maybe it is all my fault. Just adds to my sense of failure over the marriage.

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A marriage is a two person package deal. It is NEVER all just one spouses fault.