Dayzee,
I saw this post yesterday and wanted to reply but didnt really know what to say. I am so sorry for your loss. i cant begin to imagine how difficult is was for you to lose your brothers. It's unimaginable.
I am dealing with an anniversary of my own and not sure how to deal with it myself. My Uncle passed away a year ago on March 23. He was also my God father. I dont know what I could do to honor him other then living each day to my fullest potential. Giving 100% of myself. Being the good person that he wants me to be. I know he still watches over all of us and that is comforting to me. I hope that he looks down upon me with pride. He was a truely beautiful person that made an impact on my life and the lives of all of his friends and family.
I think that the suggestions that the others have made are great. A ceromony of some sort to send tribute to your brothers sounds like a good idea. I hope that you can find serenity through this difficult time. I know that it is not easy.
If you need someone to lean on, we are here. I am here. Take care and my thoughts and prayers are with you.