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Originally Posted by Malachite
Dear Sarah,
Many women, share your thoughts. I tend to think, it is fairly universal. Furthermore, I am not sure, any woman is inherently bisexual, heterosexual, or lesbian. These terms, most likely, are only conclusions, reflective of a woman's apparent choices. You don't need to test yourself. However, please be clear, I am not discouraging, or judging, sexual contact between two women.
May all your romantic choices, be fulfilling,
Larry
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Sarah the only advice I can give you is to follow your heart and feelings. If the relationship is right you will know it and there will be no question. Don't force yourself into a relationship with a anyone because that is the "right" thing to do according to some people's opinion in our society. On the other hand I don't think that noticing another womans looks would be indicative for sure of you being bi or gay.
I notice attractive, and ugly for that matter, men (yes Larry I am a woman and inherently a lesbian no doubt no question) that does not make me straight. It makes me observant.
I also don't think the reason more girls are kissing girls is simply "fashion" or for heavens sake to impress their boyfriends. I believe young females and in many respects young males are becoming more open and accepting and this may be leading to them experimenting with members of the same sex to see what feels right to them.
Guess all I am trying to say is go slow and don't feel pressured one way or the other just be you.
