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Old Oct 04, 2008, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Mouse_ View Post
Allow yourself to think about him, no laws broken there, I'm sure you still hold postive feelings toward him as we don't just switch on and off emotionally as cut and dry as you may like it to be.....the more you tell yourself not to do something, the more you do it...
That is certainly true... in anyone's experience, do these feelings fade away eventually? I have no doubt that in a few weeks I won't be thinking about it so much, but if this happens every time I see him (which is roughly once a year) maybe it would be best to cut off contact?
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