Thanks for your time and comments. I think that at least my 18 year old nieces goes to therapy with her father. I don't know about the 25 year old. It is a very personal thing and it is hard for me as their aunt to really know what is going on with them, unless I contact their father which puts my relationship with my sister in jeapordy!! That is something that I always suggest when I do have the chance to have a conversation with them. I will keep you posted