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Originally Posted by BeckyC
I don't know if i can ask this here so srry if i am not. Ok... My abuser is coming over Sat (who just happens to be my mother and me her daughter) and i don't know how to deal with it. For over 20 years she sexually and physically tourtured me. I just broke away less than a year ago. I am very torn as the child part of me wants a mother but the adult part of me is very angry. Am i wrong for any of these feelings? Why didn't i just tell her no..
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hey becky, i am so sorry to hear what your mother did to you. my heart goes out to you. i can understand you do not know how to deal with it. as in my own situation with my own family. i am glad you broke away, because i had to do that myself. i can understand you would want a mother, but also be very angry. you have every right to be angry at what was done to you. but i would not face her until you really feel you are ready too. its hard facing your abuser. i know because i have done it. do what you feel is best. but do not force yourself to face her, if you are not ready. take care.