Ok In my many past relationships I've always been self destructive, ending a relationship because I believe my partner is being unfaithful. I've often had no reason for these assumptions. I find it incredibly hard to trust people and always read into little things.

I always want to know who she is out with and what she is doing and when questions are avoided I get suspicious. I don't really want to HAVE to know these things, but again it's my lack of trust that forces me to ask. if I don't my mind makes up it's own conclusions.

Anyway i have recently started dating some one new (almost 2 Months) for the first time ever I have been able to force myself to not think the way I usually do for the most part, and things are going well.

However now I am starting to have nightmares about her being unfaithful. I feel its because I'm forcing myself not to think this way and act this way that I'm now doing it subconciously in my dreams?

I don't really know but its very confusing, I felt as if I'm SLOWLY making progress and that I might not destroy this relationship then I start having a new problem.

Any ideas on whats causing this? Or what a solution may be?

Thanks
Murdoch