completely. I love the attenton to. But I totally understand your point. you dont mean to sound narssacitic, but it dose fuel the ego. I feel the power I get when I sleep with a guy and he wants more, and the guilt I feel when Im out of there. It make you feel good for the moment, almost like drugs but eventually wears off, and you want more. Dose this sound familar???? hope you doing well !!!! I've been there , I no/. intamacy and sex are two different things.