Don't really know yet, Firebird. Looking for positive ways to open lines of communication using catalysts to trigger good memories but not oblivious to the bad ones. Trying not to watch him like a hawk but trying to be more aware. Very delicate balance. He has not cried. He has said that the reason his dad committed suicide is because a while ago his father rang him and accused Jordan of not wanting to talk to him. Well that broke my heart. I said "Honey, no way. Your dad had problems for a long time and him wanting to die is definitely not your fault!" He is surly, combative and a little bit rude at the moment so I will find ways to help him turn it around. I also have some good people for professional intervention if needed. He is a good-natured, resilient boy so I think he will come through it okay as long as it is handled effectively.