I really agree with gimmeice about taking time for yourself! I am in college too and my university has free therapy for all students! I would talk to your bf about how you care for him and want to make things work but only if things can change. Which means you both need to be able to change. Going to therapy will benefit you both greatly. It helps to have a third party who is unbiased and will not take sides. He or she can point out how you both feel and what you both can do, or need to do to fix the relationship. If you really care about eachother it is worth it! My fiance has been very understanding about my OCD but there are times when I feel he resents me for the little things I do, but I cant help them! So i explained to him why I cant help it and so he went online and started doing research (much like you probably are, so thats good!) either way everyone has a different way they cope and I really think that going to couples counseling would help