MysticalMoon,
You did a very good job of sharing with us...thank you.

Jmo, if you are willing to give it some time and he is willing to try and change then it may be worth it--counseling, etc..
If it doesn't work out you will at least know that you gave it an honest effort.

On the other hand, though, if you know in your heart that you are ready to move on then do it.
It sounds like you have a good counselor. I hope you get the guidance you need to make a focused decision.

My best wishes to you,
Cap