MysticalMoon,
You did a very good job of sharing with us...thank you.
*Thank you for your kind and warm welcome.*

Jmo, if you are willing to give it some time and he is willing to try and change then it may be worth it--counseling, etc..

On the other hand, though, if you know in your heart that you are ready to move on then do it.
It sounds like you have a good counselor.

Cap