Hello ihateit, welcome to PC

My husband and I have been in your sitation. We married very early, had kids right away and he was in the military which meant a move every couple of years for the first 7 years we were married. It also meant he was not paid well and there were financial issues. With all this stress I told him I loved him, but I was not in love with him anymore. It took us a couple of years and a lot of growing and patience but we were eventually able to put things back on track. He never gave up, but he gave me the space I needed to decide that our marriage was worth the effort.