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Old Feb 01, 2009, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Kiya View Post
i realized (and this is a personal thing, ppl have to come to this in their own time) that the abuse, tho it is awful and terrible and should not happen to anyone ever, was not *evil* in the sense of being otherworldly, by the devil, something that can suck me in to some scary porthole into ever-lasting blackness.
This realization, although it probably mixes things up and likely alters your perception of many other beliefs, sounds like it could lead to some healing. If the abuse was not evil and the acts committed against you, and do not have the power to condemn you suffer in eternal hell, this is good news right? Your realization means that there is HOPE.

(((Kiya))) take care of yourself. I believe that as long as you can draw a breath, there is hope.
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