Re I Can't Take It Anymore:
I would agree with Rekon. You should have a heart to heart with him and explain exactly what it is that pleases you and that you would like him to stop the turn off behaviors. Porn is very unrealistic in it's portrayal of women and doesn't depict how real women want to be treated. He's obviously getting his bad behavior from that. Also you mentioned that your desire isn't as strong since your daughter was born. I went through the same thing. I would suggest going to your doctor to rule out any medical causes. We women know that our desire starts with our emotions and that we need partners who are kind and considerate of our feelings first before we can be involved sexually. Maybe set aside a date night and tell him that this night will be all about you and satisfying you first. Best of luck to you and your husband.