If you think your new T doesn't accept you then it wouldn't make a good basis for therapy. Maybe switch to another T before you are further down the road. I wasted 4 years of therapy with a person who I didn't connect with. Some T's do their job because they love it, regardless of the pay so I wouldnt worry about money being an issue. Sometimes people connect with us sometimes they don't.

I dont know who is who in my zoo yet either. I just do the best I can with what I have and whoever fronts up. One of mine grunts. Others dont/wont talk. But others have surfaced when they have felt safe.

When they feel safe to come out they will. Trying to prize others out of their shell only makes them retreat even more. Multipixie gave me some great advice about relaxing and letting things unfold. So try and just relax. Do the best you can each day.

Possum