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Originally Posted by Zen888
Hi Everyone
I made a friend at college during the Fall 2008 semester. She is 10 years younger than me. She is very sweet, down-to-earth, and kind.
All we ever talk about is school and her going to church.
I don't know how to keep this friendship going because I don't want to talk about school and I am uncertain about my religious views. I am not against church....just don't know what I believe at this point in my life.
I try to bring up new topics during our phone conversations but we usually get back to talking about college and church. I don't like talking about school...etc. It does my head in.
Any ideas?
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Well... there is the option of explaining what you would like, you should be upfront about stuff like this. If she's like you said, then she should, in theory, understand. You don't what to blow up in anger because you simply didn't say something earlier and you become fed up with an otherwise great friend.
She can't be a better friend to you, if you don't speak your mind.