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Mar 31, 2010, 05:42 PM
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Hi there, I don't post very often, however, I read frequently. I find reading about others experiences, helps me to understand mine. I have only been recently diagnosed with BPD.
Friday night, I had to make the terrible decision to euthanize my best friend and companion. I know it sounds cheezy to anyone who doesn't like cats, but George was with me my whole adult life (he was 13), through all my crazy, wonderful, and horrible times of my life. He was the constant "man" in my life. He always came to cuddle when I cried (trust me, the past 2 years have had a great deal of tears). I am trying so hard to quit smoking pot, I have surgery on the 14th, and meet with a dr. on the 1st to talk about getting into a group therapy. Obviously I have to have quit for both. However, I smoked for a very long time and it has become my coping skill, I don't know how to deal with this loss without it. This is my last day of smoking pot, and we'll see how the next half of my life (pot free) turns out. I hope this doesn't sound like the crazy pot smoking cat lady, but I suppose broken down into basics, that's what I am. 
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Mar 31, 2010, 09:38 PM
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Sweetpea,
So sorry about your kitty. I just had to put one of mine down last Tuesday. I was devastated. I have a little secret for you. There will be animals in heaven!!! YAAAY!!!! 
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#3
Mar 31, 2010, 11:54 PM
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Has God spoken?
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Apr 02, 2010, 06:42 AM
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goodness iam so sorry about your losss i dont think that anybody will think that you are crazy becaue we all know how close our pets can be to us so yes its still a loss even though he was a cat but he was there for you duirng your hard times...as for you quitting smoking pot...CONGRATS...that is a hard habit to break and if you can do it helathy then you will be free for life and what i mean is that if you can deveolp healthy coping skills then you will beat it ...been there done that aint going back
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#5
Apr 02, 2010, 04:50 PM
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Sweetpea77, sorry about your loss. Good luck with the pot stop.
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