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Old Jun 24, 2017, 11:40 AM
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Hello!

I have not cut in nearly 10 years but have been struggling with urges to cut and suicidal ideation. I am 29 and a mother of an 8 year old daughter. Looking for support and friendship.

I am a teacher and love my job.

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Old Jun 24, 2017, 03:49 PM
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Hello, are you on any medications?
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Old Jun 24, 2017, 04:03 PM
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I haven't been for a long time and I still have not been put back on any medication. I just started seeing a new Counselor. They are going to try this before putting me back on medication.
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Old Jun 25, 2017, 03:40 PM
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i am a cutter, i havent cut in several weeks... it comes in waves for me

when i hit a major depressive episode... i know how hard it is

i try to distract myself when the urges come, can you use ice cubes instead?

splash cold water on your face or dip your face in a sink of cold water

play a fun, fast paced video game?

take a walk with a friend..? or talk with someone close to you?

i see my scars and it discourages me... i dont want more scars, but sometimes its not enough and i end up cutting anyway...

talking sometimes helps, if you have anyone you can talk to to distract you from it...

its really a difficult thing... we have to find what works for us because everyone is different...

i am 27 year old male, single with no kids btw...
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Old Jun 25, 2017, 03:43 PM
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i am a cutter, i havent cut in several weeks... it comes in waves for me

when i hit a major depressive episode... i know how hard it is

i try to distract myself when the urges come, can you use ice cubes instead?

splash cold water on your face or dip your face in a sink of cold water

play a fun, fast paced video game?

take a walk with a friend..? or talk with someone close to you?

i see my scars and it discourages me... i dont want more scars, but sometimes its not enough and i end up cutting anyway...

talking sometimes helps, if you have anyone you can talk to to distract you from it...

its really a difficult thing... we have to find what works for us because everyone is different...

i am 27 year old male, single with no kids btw...
I am sorry for your struggles. Remember, small steps. Thank you for saying hi.
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Old Jun 25, 2017, 03:48 PM
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indeed

i dont have the desire or urge to cut at all now... it goes away and i feel awful about doing it... the scars dont go away and are a terrible reminder...

i never understand why i do it... but i struggle with the stupid addictions and mental illness that makes my personality change i guess...

are you doing okay now?

distractions are what works most for me... distractions distractions distractions...
but i have ADHD and as long as i can keep my mind racing on other things i can hopefully keep my mind off the cutting when the urge comes
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Old Jun 25, 2017, 03:51 PM
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indeed

i dont have the desire or urge to cut at all now... it goes away and i feel awful about doing it... the scars dont go away and are a terrible reminder...

i never understand why i do it... but i struggle with the stupid addictions and mental illness that makes my personality change i guess...

are you doing okay now?

distractions are what works most for me... distractions distractions distractions...
but i have ADHD and as long as i can keep my mind racing on other things i can hopefully keep my mind off the cutting when the urge comes
If you ever need to talk just look me up.
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