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((((BJ)))) that's good to know coz i think everybody else is...i think you only get the support here so long as you DON'T screw up? |
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Kalamity_Jane said: ((((BJ)))) that's good to know coz i think everybody else is...i think you only get the support here so long as you DON'T screw up? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I don't think that is entirely true, but can see how you would see it that way. I think sometimes people get overwhelmed or something? IDK. I care and I am here for you. We can be there for each other, right? __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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yeah, it's good to know one person TRULY cares here for you always too |
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Guess what? I just grabbed a half a polish sausage, warmed it in the microwave and am eating it. It is small, but it's something.
I thought that might make you feel a little better cuz you have been talking to me and trying to get me to eat for days now. BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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((((((BJ)))))) see if you can keep it up just a little at a time yeah? well done. |
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Kalamity_Jane said: ((((((BJ)))))) see if you can keep it up just a little at a time yeah? well done. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yeah, I will try to eat the other half later. Hey, wait a minute...this was your thread! LOL I won't hijack it again...I swear. I just wanted you to know that whether you know it or not, you do help...a lot. Now, as for you...don't lose hope, ok? If I can eat again, then you can stop drinking again..right? Maybe not tonight, but tomorrow you can try again. I won't give up on you.....ever. (((((((((((((((KJ))))))))))))))))) __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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thanks ((((((((BJ)))))))) but that makes you the ONLY person on the entire planet. |
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We all need reminders now and again K_J. Even MYSELF!!!!..
I'd rather see you smothering everyone with your love rather than go back to the old harmful ways! We need you around here!!... __________________ |
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I don't think so. Think about this...here in the States in certain areas it is gorgeous outside and lots of people are out enjoying the sun. Maybe they just are out? Maybe they are in chat? Maybe they don't come to this section of the board?
I don't think I am the only one that cares. Even if I am....that's ok because one person can make a difference. You have made a huge difference in my life lately. Please don't give up. I need ya! BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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geez...i thought nobody would wanna know if i screwed up? sugarlumps ziggy you got some timing...i was just about to open can 2 and you KNOW what would come next? but yeah...i'm a sod when on drink...i can't smother everybody with love AND drink. ok...you win coz i know you're right...can 2 going down the drain. geez ya just won't leave a woman to get drunk in peace will ya?...ty ziggy |
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Nope....Good for you!!!!!
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AWESOME! I am really glad to hear you are gonna pour out the other one!
See....you ARE loved and needed! And no, no leaving you alone to drink in peace....won't happen! I'm proud of ya! BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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((((((BJ)))))))) hun more than needing me...you need to believe in yourself. you can do it you know...i know you can coz you're stronger than you think. |
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sometimes i think i just need my head banging ya know...no way for a mom to be carrying on but...guess we all get tempted. 20 months down the drain i guess...but could've been worse i guess. grrrr...what is with i guess??? |
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Kalamity_Jane said: ((((((BJ)))))))) hun more than needing me...you need to believe in yourself. you can do it you know...i know you can coz you're stronger than you think. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thanks. Your right and I'm working on it! Just wanted to make sure you know that you are needed, too. You are so kind, warm, thoughtful, insightful and caring. BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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LOL (((((BJ)))) i can't keep up with you tonite!!! |
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Kalamity_Jane said: LOL (((((BJ)))) i can't keep up with you tonite!!! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Maybe I will run ya ragged til you get too tired to chase anymore. Then you can get a good nights sleep. LOL BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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LMAO ((BJ)) you're getting there...be t you'll sleep too huh? |
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Kalamity_Jane said: LMAO ((BJ)) you're getting there...be t you'll sleep too huh? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> IDK, it's only 3:22pm here right now, so I won't be tired for a while. But, yeah....chasing you is gonna wear me out. You are so quick! Where you gonna be next??? LOL __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. |
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i do not normally read this forum and thats why i wasnt aware of the time you're having now... remember hon, that you matter to a great many people, that you are loved and appreciated.... i know how hard it is to be the one others turn to, how hard it is to be the one who cannot fall.. i know its impossible to be perfect in every way... i know the feelings you are having very well.. i have been there... its important not to beat yourself up hon.... its important to remember what the others have said... how much you matter... and of course, you cant do this for us hon... you need to do it for you.... i have been in your place... ive slipped, ive started over... you can make it too... all the ground you've made is not lost for one mistake... true, the count starts over... but you are not a failure KJ... you slipped.... accept yourself and the truth that you are imperfect.. we all are imperfect in one way or another... you are still my friend.... |
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