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#26
Apr 13, 2008, 04:52 PM
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Kalamity_Jane said: ((((((BJ))))))  see if you can keep it up just a little at a time yeah? well done.    </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yeah, I will try to eat the other half later. Hey, wait a minute...this was your thread! LOL I won't hijack it again...I swear. I just wanted you to know that whether you know it or not, you do help...a lot. Now, as for you...don't lose hope, ok? If I can eat again, then you can stop drinking again..right? Maybe not tonight, but tomorrow you can try again. I won't give up on you.....ever. (((((((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))))
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#27
Apr 13, 2008, 04:56 PM
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thanks ((((((((BJ)))))))) but that makes you the ONLY person on the entire planet.
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Apr 13, 2008, 04:56 PM
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We all need reminders now and again K_J. Even MYSELF!!!!..
I'd rather see you smothering everyone with your love rather than go back to the old harmful ways! We need you around here!!...
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#29
Apr 13, 2008, 05:02 PM
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I don't think so. Think about this...here in the States in certain areas it is gorgeous outside and lots of people are out enjoying the sun. Maybe they just are out? Maybe they are in chat? Maybe they don't come to this section of the board?
I don't think I am the only one that cares. Even if I am....that's ok because one person can make a difference. You have made a huge difference in my life lately. Please don't give up. I need ya! BJ
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#30
Apr 13, 2008, 05:02 PM
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geez...i thought nobody would wanna know if i screwed up? sugarlumps ziggy you got some timing...i was just about to open can 2 and you KNOW what would come next? but yeah...i'm a sod when on drink...i can't smother everybody with love AND drink. ok...you win coz i know you're right...can 2 going down the drain. geez ya just won't leave a woman to get drunk in peace will ya?...ty ziggy
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#31
Apr 13, 2008, 05:07 PM
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Nope....Good for you!!!!!
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#32
Apr 13, 2008, 05:07 PM
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AWESOME! I am really glad to hear you are gonna pour out the other one!
 See....you ARE loved and needed! And no, no leaving you alone to drink in peace....won't happen! I'm proud of ya!  BJ
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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#33
Apr 13, 2008, 05:10 PM
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((((((BJ)))))))) hun more than needing me...you need to believe in yourself. you can do it you know...i know you can coz you're stronger than you think.
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#34
Apr 13, 2008, 05:12 PM
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sometimes i think i just need my head banging ya know...no way for a mom to be carrying on but...guess we all get tempted. 20 months down the drain i guess...but could've been worse i guess. grrrr...what is with i guess??? |
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#35
Apr 13, 2008, 05:13 PM
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Kalamity_Jane said: ((((((BJ)))))))) hun more than needing me...you need to believe in yourself. you can do it you know...i know you can coz you're stronger than you think. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thanks. Your right and I'm working on it!  Just wanted to make sure you know that you are needed, too. You are so kind, warm, thoughtful, insightful and caring. BJ
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#36
Apr 13, 2008, 05:15 PM
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LOL (((((BJ)))) i can't keep up with you tonite!!! 
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#37
Apr 13, 2008, 05:19 PM
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Kalamity_Jane said: LOL (((((BJ)))) i can't keep up with you tonite!!! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Maybe I will run ya ragged til you get too tired to chase anymore. Then you can get a good nights sleep.     LOLBJ
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#38
Apr 13, 2008, 05:21 PM
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LMAO ((BJ)) you're getting there...be t you'll sleep too huh?   
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#39
Apr 13, 2008, 05:23 PM
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Kalamity_Jane said: LMAO ((BJ)) you're getting there...be t you'll sleep too huh? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> IDK, it's only 3:22pm here right now, so I won't be tired for a while. But, yeah....chasing you is gonna wear me out. You are so quick! Where you gonna be next??? LOL  
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#40
Apr 13, 2008, 05:33 PM
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(((KJ ))))
i do not normally read this forum and thats why i wasnt aware of the time you're having now... remember hon, that you matter to a great many people, that you are loved and appreciated.... i know how hard it is to be the one others turn to, how hard it is to be the one who cannot fall.. i know its impossible to be perfect in every way... i know the feelings you are having very well.. i have been there... its important not to beat yourself up hon.... its important to remember what the others have said... how much you matter... and of course, you cant do this for us hon... you need to do it for you.... i have been in your place... ive slipped, ive started over... you can make it too... all the ground you've made is not lost for one mistake... true, the count starts over... but you are not a failure KJ... you slipped.... accept yourself and the truth that you are imperfect.. we all are imperfect in one way or another... you are still my friend.... |
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#41
Apr 13, 2008, 05:42 PM
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((nowheretorun)) thank you...that's a weight off my shoulders... IRL people always say i'm unbreakable, 100% reliable, the one to always turn to etc... it means i feel i can never publicly be seen to fail... guess i expected people here to reject one failure... but thank you for pointing out it's not a failure but a slip...anyone can get back up from a slip and start over...like a slip on the ice yes? and thank you for still counting me as a friend...friendship means a lot to me. |
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#42
Apr 13, 2008, 06:00 PM
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Hey there KJ, one slip is not the end of the world.
The important this is to stop, learn from the mistake and start over. Or that's at least what they kept telling us in rehab. I can't count how many time's i've had to start over, but the people here at PC were amazingly supportive after my last relapse. We all know how seductive addiction can be. You don't always have to be strong. It's totally ok to need and ask for help. It took me way too long to figure that out. And it made my recovery that much harder. From what i've seen of you here on PC you're a really caring person. Remember that, and good for you on pouring the second can down the drain. --splitimage
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#43
Apr 13, 2008, 06:04 PM
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awww thank you. i think the hardest thing to learn for me is to ask for help and support. the second hardest thing is to believe there will actually be any coz...weird as it may sound to some...i think i'm the least loveable person on the planet. but thanks for your input and letting me know a slip is not the end of the world and that people here are supportive when it happens. |
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#44
Apr 14, 2008, 06:06 PM
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sorry i know this is a stupid post and it's more for me than anybody else...just telling myself... nope, i don't suck, i poured away can two, fought the urge for hours to go buy more, realized what an idiot i was being and keep reminding myself of the first time i went ice-skating...kept falling on my ***, kept getting back up and trying again...didn't make me feel like a failure that i kept falling on my butt, made me feel like a tryer coz i kept getting back up! so just reminding myself...not a failure for one slip...just gotta stay up now that i'm back up.
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#45
Apr 14, 2008, 06:28 PM
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((((((((((((KJ))))))))))))))
You are inspiring, you know that! I am so glad that you feel better today. You're gonna start again...get up again....succeed again! Now, let's party right! I got the soda!    BJ
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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#46
Apr 14, 2008, 06:31 PM
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LOL BJ you do make me laugh but i like that. yep it's    
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#47
Apr 15, 2008, 09:12 AM
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((((Kalamity Jane))))
Wow. I wish I would have been able to do the same as you a few weeks back! Keep it up!
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#48
Apr 15, 2008, 09:14 AM
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((((Katie)))) thank you...how are you doing?
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#49
Apr 15, 2008, 09:20 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Kalamity_Jane said: sorry i know this is a stupid post and it's more for me than anybody else...just telling myself... nope, i don't suck, i poured away can two, fought the urge for hours to go buy more, realized what an idiot i was being and keep reminding myself of the first time i went ice-skating...kept falling on my ***, kept getting back up and trying again...didn't make me feel like a failure that i kept falling on my butt, made me feel like a tryer coz i kept getting back up! so just reminding myself...not a failure for one slip...just gotta stay up now that i'm back up. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> (((KJ )))) you can make it hon .. sending all my good wishes for you NOPE!!!! you DONT suck!!!! |
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#50
Apr 15, 2008, 09:24 AM
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((nowheretorun)) thank you...it does help... |
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