My anxiet is high
3 years ago my mother died and my brother the execuive continues to delay things and asksfor money
the other problem is the same-I had to filter out her email messages-brother's wife
They keep asking me for things when they act so mean and forget me on
birthdays and that I have experienced the greates loss of my life
They are not gettting it there way- they are no longer Executors of my
will- they don't worry about mejust caring about what they get in the
end- I am giving less to nieces and nephwe they don't want me in their life- I will not allow thme to walk all over me and I have done nothing
They have made the saddest moment in my life worse and worse

[olamaja]

Sunshine,

Have you tried to tell them how all of this is making you feel? Even if they dont like what they hear, it may help you heal. The knowledge that they know may bring you some more peace.

Originally Posted by sunshineinthecity

My anxiet is high
3 years ago my mother died and my brother the execuive continues to delay things and asksfor money
the other problem is the same-I had to filter out her email messages-brother's wife
They keep asking me for things when they act so mean and forget me on
birthdays and that I have experienced the greates loss of my life
They are not gettting it there way- they are no longer Executors of my
will- they don't worry about mejust caring about what they get in the
end- I am giving less to nieces and nephwe they don't want me in their life- I will not allow thme to walk all over me and I have done nothing
They have made the saddest moment in my life worse and worse

[gimmeice]

((((((((((((((( sunshineinthecity ))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry that you are going through such a hard time, I am sending you some hugs