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My dad has severe GAD due to work. His boss tortures him - always leaving him with the fear of being fired and thus loosing everything. I can't stand being around my father or mother bc all they talk about is DEMISE (i.e. the demise of our home, life, my school, everything). Anytime, I spend money my mother reminds me that "my father is going to loose everything, and that i'm a selfish pig for spending money - God hates you!"
I can't do it anymore. My brother who is a therapist, told me that this is just how my parents naturally are and I shouldn't let it get it me. I don't know...I am afraid, irritated, and ANGRY at my parents, my father's evil boss, and the world as a whole **** YOU! |
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Hey Palemoss,
It seems like you are are very angry at the moment, and are going through a awful lot with your parents, seems like some money problems, are you religious? "God hates you" How old are you? Maybe you could find ways to get your anger out, like you have through typing, maybe speak to someone in person about whats happening at home, such as a teacher at school? How would that be, such as a teacher? Or a responsible adult? |
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I would confide in your brother more. I wish I was lucky enough to have a professional in my family. My father used to have a stressful time with work too. He would come home irritable and depressed and would argue with my mother. The pressures of the job are coming home with your dad and your mom is starting to feel anxious too. It sours everything and their snapping at you now. It's not right that they take some of it out on you. Please talk to your brother or another professional. Your brother may not be objective in this case actually. I wish you peace.
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