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Old Jul 03, 2012, 10:57 PM
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So tomorrow I am going to a Fourth of July party with a close friend...That's not so bad. But there are going to be a ton of people there that I don't know...And I'm kind of nervous about that...To the point where I kind of don't want to go...If my friend just leaves me hanging or something, I feel like I will probably freak out...So much for a first impression...

Does anyone else feel this way? Any ideas on how to calm down the nerves? I'm kind of lost in this one...

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Old Jul 05, 2012, 11:06 PM
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I know how it feels. I kind of pretend I'm another person when I meet new people. I pretend that I'm confident and outgoing and maybe one day I'll become that person. It gets me through those tough situations when I have to meet new people.
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Old Jul 05, 2012, 11:42 PM
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thats what i do i just suck it up and try acting confident, it usually works for a little while atleast..
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Old Jul 05, 2012, 11:47 PM
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It's scary and tiring, but it helps enough to get me through it!
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Old Jul 06, 2012, 12:47 AM
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I did okay...I always feel awkward...And like I will mess up or something...

Thanks for the replies, I really appreciate it...I always feel dumb for posting on here...

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Old Jul 06, 2012, 12:49 AM
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Don't feel dumb! That's what this place is for!
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Old Jul 06, 2012, 01:08 AM
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Yeah, I guess I just post sometimes...And if I don't get a response it's like nobody cares...Even though that is just my mind telling me lies...
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Old Jul 06, 2012, 01:33 AM
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Well your mind is the one lying to you. That's the purpose of this site! To post and support. If people don't respond... they usually don't know what to say...
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Old Jul 06, 2012, 01:37 AM
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Yeah...My head isn't always screwed on right...Most of the time it isn't...But thanks. It helps a lot to know someone is there.
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