Obsessions and phobias over sexuality

If I have sexual attraction ONLY towards boys and not girls and have fantasies only with boys then why the hell I believe that I am bisexual? Does that make any sense? Everyday I test myself to see if I am really bi with imaginary kisses or I check for arousal and some other compulsions like these,and that leads to nowhere because the more I mental test the more confused I am.Checking doesn't really help,it makes the things worse because it makes me feel that I like the thoughts of being with a woman when in reality I don't.I don't have ANYTHING towards LGBT,I just don't want to be me.. can sb help me?

Whom are you with in RL?

what do u mean?

You have sex in real life with whom - boys, girls, both, nobody? Not fantasy, but reality.

ah excuse me! No I am still virgin,but I do really want to have sex with a boy(the right one)

Then you seem heterosexual to me. It seems a simple issue with you, without hesitation.

Are you equally cognitive about food or are you able to just enjoy whatever you eat without analysis?

I forget the exact expression but the idea is: if you start analyzing exactly how you walk - you know, the precise mechanics of walking - you will fall.

I think you have OCD. You don't have to label yourself for it either, I think everyone has a level of obsessiveness, but in any event, that's what it sounds like. It's even a legit symptom. (Obsessive thoughts about homosexuality etc) To be honest, I do this too, and I have NO. FREAKIN. CLUE. why. because I have nothing against gays either. I've got a couple gay friends and they all know that I have no issue with them.

... I've been in love before, twice. Both of them were male. I don't have a ton of experience in the dating department, but I had many a makeout session with my first boyfriend, and I really enjoyed that... and by enjoyed, I mean really rofl. The only guy I didn't like kissing was a guy I met on a dating site, and it was just so incredibly awkward... but I can't blame that on sexuality. No chemistry.

I mean I think some women are pretty or even gorgeous but I don't want to have sex with them... in every sexual fantasy I've had, there's been a guy on the other end.

We're straight, we just think too much. You probably obsess about other stuff too. I don't really know how to fix it other than be reassured by the fact that this is a mental thing and other people do it as well, and it's not your fault. I have a feeling that with this particular thing, your brain just generates things you don't want to be thinking about, so it's not really coming from you, yourself, but rather the things that give you anxiety. Like me-- every so often I'll just have random flash-thoughts of people naked. WHY? I don't know, to be honest it really bugs me that I would do that, but I don't control it, or want to be thinking about it... once I started accepting the fact that I'm not a perv or a horrible person, and that this is a total anxiety-related brain thing, I felt a ton better about it and it actually stopped happening as much. In those situations it's really nice to be able to say "I have OCD, and this is why I experience this" because despite it being unfortunate, it's really calming to know that it's not your fault.

ALSO,
I'm a virgin too. I'm waiting for marriage. In case you thought you were the only one out there.